In a discussion about that "I'll let you know later in the week" thing, Killiedaft neatly found a post I'd put up back in 2001 as a result of the Shag Times venture. It gave a neat breakdown of the hundred girls I'd met and how our relationships didn't flourish. Its a neat snapshot of the time.
It took me an hour or so, but...
For the past seven years, why me and she didn't work out the reasons are thus:-
29% were friends
25% were too far away
21% just didn't get on
18% had boyfriends
4% kept on vanishing only to reappear months later
4% clearly insane